iReporter shakes off 170 pounds
- Deidre Robinson went from a size 24 to a size 2 and opened a fitness studio
- Robinson's family didn't understand why she was overweight growing up
- Her daughter encouraged her to get fit so they could participate in activities together
At 310 pounds, Robinson
knew she'd have restrictions at the theme park, but that didn't make her
feel any less humiliated when she was told she couldn't ride the roller
coaster with her daughter.
"There was a big guy next
to me and his snapped," she said. "I thought, 'There's something wrong
with that.' Obviously I was a lot bigger than he was."
The 2007 event was one of
several turning points for Robinson, now 31, who was eventually
inspired to join Weight Watchers and start doing Zumba, a Latin-inspired
dance fitness class, in February 2009.
Less than two years
later, the South Carolina native had dropped more than half her body
weight -- going from a size 24 to a size 2 -- and was ready turn her
healthy lifestyle into her livelihood.
Childhood scars
"My mom always called me
thick," Robinson said. "Back in the fourth grade, I remember my mom
measuring my cereal ... three-fourths a cup of Cheerios."
Nobody in her family had
ever battled weight problems, she said. They couldn't understand why she
gained weight while eating the same things as her sister, who "to this
day is just genetically thin."
By high school, she had
tried just about every diet out there: from eating only chicken and rice
every day for a month to "the no-carb thing."
The quick results were nice, she said, but nothing ever stuck.
Things didn't get any
easier after graduation. Robinson's parents and sister, who she said
she's very close with, tricked her into attending a weight intervention
under the false pretense of discussing a bill.
She showed up with her boyfriend at the time, who wasn't overweight.
A few years ago, they tried again, giving Robinson a gym membership for Christmas.
"For my family to come
at me like that ... they didn't intentionally try to hurt my feelings,
but they were trying to wake me up," Robinson said. "They didn't know
what it was like. They never had weight problems. They ate the same food
(as me). They're the ones who took me to the restaurants."
Robinson said her
family's well-meaning gestures did nothing to motivate her to lose
weight. Rather, they made her defensive and caused tension.
Robinson's dad wasn't
overtly hard on her, but she could tell he was disappointed -- "like he
thought I let myself go," she said, which might have been unfair
considering he had his own vice.
Just as Robinson
considered eating a habit that she had little control over, her dad had
smoked cigarettes since he was 20. He died at 45 in 2004 from coronary
artery disease, five years before Robinson lost the weight.
"The one thing I hate
the most is that my dad never got to see (me thin)," she said. "I know
how proud he'd be that I got that weight off. He was always so proud of
me for my job accomplishments, but he could never understand why I
couldn't get that part right."
The tipping point
From what she could wear
and drive to where she would sit at restaurants, Robinson's size
dictated many aspects of her daily life.
"I didn't have one pair
of shoes that had laces," she said. "It put me out of breath to tie
them. ... I would go into a restaurant already determining in my head
whether I'd need a table or booth. I couldn't drive a sports car. I
literally couldn't fit behind the wheel."
And the theme park incident is just one bad memory of a too-snug safety belt.
Robinson hadn't been on
an airplane in about five years when she jetted off to Miami for a work
trip with her husband in 2005. She cringed as a flight attendant yelled
out for someone to bring a seat belt extension over.
"In that situation, you
almost feel like ... yes, you are a human being, but not only do you not
fit into society because you look different and you stand out, but you
literally do not fit," she said. "I wouldn't even go to a concert
because the seats (were) too small. You don't want to put yourself in
those situations because they're so embarrassing."
Robinson said her daughter McKenzie, who turns 10 in November, is the main reason she ultimately decided to get fit.
Up until McKenzie was 6,
Robinson hadn't been in a pool with her because she didn't feel
comfortable in a bathing suit. "She started asking me, 'Mom, why are you
not swimming with me?' "
And as parents slid down the giant slide at the carnival with their children, Robinson waited for her daughter at the bottom.
"Why won't you go down with me?" McKenzie would ask her mom.
"I felt like I was
missing out," Robinson said. "I was there. I would take her to the
events, but I couldn't participate. I'm at all the events, but I'm in
none of the pictures."
Shake it
Thanks to Weight Watchers and Zumba DVDs, the weight started to fall off, Robinson said.
After losing 30 pounds
and gaining confidence, she began taking Zumba classes at a gym. She
started going a few times a week and loved it so much she continued to
go every day. More than 150 pounds later, Robinson decided to open her
own fitness studio in Greenville, South Carolina.
Within two months of
opening Fitness Shakers in May 2011, Robinson said she quickly lost
another 15 pounds -- bringing her total weight loss to 170 pounds in two
years -- just from being the only instructor at the time.
"It's amazing to think I
used to have these huge round chubby thick arms and now I've got this
muscle definition," she said. "Pounds don't even bother me anymore. Now
it's body fat percentage."
Her studio, as well as
her story, now helps inspire others to be active and healthy, if the
testimonials on her website are any indication: "I could never thank Dee
Dee Robinson and her team enough for all they have done for me through
Fitness Shakers," Jessie E. writes. "I immediately felt love, support,
and acceptance walking into my first class."
"They trust me because they know where I've been," Robinson said of the members at her gym. "They know I can relate."
She now has a staff of 10 and a second location in Taylor, South Carolina, which opened in November 2011.
"I work out every day of
my life," Robinson said, who also credits her fit physique to knowing
what foods to eat. Salmon is one of her favorites because it's filling,
yet low on the Weight Watchers' PointsPlus system.
"Do I have my one cheat day a week? Yeah," she said. "Is one cheeseburger going to make me gain weight? No."
Robinson has also
noticed some other positive changes in her life since losing the weight.
In addition to strengthening the bond she has with herself -- gaining
confidence and happiness -- she said her relationship with her family
has flourished.
"They say, 'We finally
got our Dee back. Her personality is back. She's her bubbly normal
self,' " Robinson said. "We're definitely closer."
She said she used to
remove herself from situations, such as family cookouts, because she
wasn't comfortable with her size, but now she's a lot more involved.
"I did it for me,"
Robinson said of losing the weight. "But maybe this whole weight loss
process wasn't just for me. Never did I think I could inspire others.
... I get more gratitude from that than just knowing what I've done for
myself."
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